The5 things a man should have, and a woman should require before a Relationship!

Beautiful People......
I was listening to Dr Myles Munroe on CD, on the Dangers of freedom, to my surprise the first 20 min of his message was about man and woman. So i thought the things he said a man should be able to do were pretty tight so i thought is share them with the guys and the girls..
Here we go,

For the Man, (and the woman)

Being the head, of the family doesnt mean that you are the master, or the boss of her. It simply means that you are responsible for her and the family. He created the male first because he wanted the male to be the foundation, the standard setter, spiritual head, the teacher and the protector. That is why everything was told to Adam first BEFORE Eve was made. Gen 2 v15-18. There is no record of God telling eve about the tree (oooohhhh someone should have taught someone something)

For the Woman (and the man)
Number 1
Eden (def: a place of paradise the presence of God); God's presence first, The man had God's presence before everything else was added......... so take to heart when Jesus says in Matt: 6v33 "But seek ye first his kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."
So fellas don't look for a beauty to capture unless you have the almight, the same for you ladies!

Number 2
Gen 2:15 God gave man work first before he gave us woman....(insert laugh here- hehe) SO what a man needs frist is his Job. Therefore ladies no matter what his mack game is and what he says, and guys no matter what vibe you drop her first question should be whether you have a Job! A man needs a job, if you dont receive that then go ahead and spend the rest of your life as a Male rather than the MAN God called you to be. Work don't be lazy, its probably not an attractive quality either. God gave Adam a job first.........

Number 3
The Second thing adam was given was to Culitvate
cul·ti·vate (klt-vt)
tr.v. cul·ti·vat·ed, cul·ti·vat·ing, cul·ti·vates

1. 1. To improve and prepare (land), as by plowing or fertilizing, for raising crops; till.
   2. To loosen or dig soil around (growing plants).
2. To grow or tend (a plant or crop).
3. To promote the growth of (a biological culture).
4. To nurture; foster. See Synonyms at nurture.
5. To form and refine, as by education (see the fifth thing).
6. To seek the acquaintance or goodwill of; make friends with.

Basically make fruitful; So when a man comes into your lives ladies he should make you better. So Dudes be prepared to be able to cultivate that involves work and teaching. So after asking about the job the second question a guy should be asked is "Can you improve me?"
Therefore when a man takes a woman out on date she shouldnt come back pregnant but better.
Marry an asset not a deficit! The Male was created to improve, Midas touch style.The world is filled with males but very few MEN! Believe that!
JesusChrist has a Wife! Yes! The Church. The first thing he says is im working, then he cultivates and cleanses her! Ephesians 5 v22-29

Number 4
Should be able to Guard what is entrusted to him! "The Protector" protecting his, woman children and territory (bring out that warrior). So embrace your aggressive nature guys, God made it for a reason! The Safest place for a woman should be in the arms of a husband. And your kids should be able to say "That's MY DADDY"! like that old Zimbabwean Chibataura ad "Mwanawangu Iyeye" lol

And Lastly but not least Number 5
And finally in v18 the woman is introduced. After Adam has named everything and all that stuff, so whose job was it to teach Eve? "The Teacher" Adam.
Fella's, if u cant do this then dont even think about it. A man without Christ is a headless man! Lol Fancy marrying a headless man ladies........
The man wasnt put in the position by vote, but because God made it that way! The wife and kids didn't have a vote!
However,
God intended for a King and a Queen! not a King and domestic servant! Amen
Teamwork is essential. The man and woman are both equal. But there needs to be a head, The Man, that doesnt make the woman less but different.
Ladies think about it this way, apart from child birth it is better to be a woman than a man; When anything goes wrong God blames the MAN, for example in the Garden who was seduced by the devil? EVE! who took the fruit?EVE! who ate the fruit first? EVE! who gave the fruit to adam? EVE! Who did God look for? ADAM!

Women did not come from the soil, she is His baby. Man is the the source, the father (title or discription) of the woman, man carry in them the source of life (sperm- to the slow). That is why a mans sin can pass down generations, because when he committs adultery that seed is also involved. Back to the fruit; Man is also "the foundation", "the cornerstone" (echoes of Christ and HIS bride "The Church") When Eve ate the fruit nothing happened!............ but when Adam (the fondation, the cornerstone) ate then everythin toppled. Mankind Toppled!

A mans power comes from his position! Men need the position! Sad but true......
A womans power comes from influence! A woman can rule from behind the thrown as we say in Zimbabwe Pititcot Government! Men have to talk more, women can afford to talk less, because of THAT look. You KNOW that look, as if someone's friend jus died! So stay on the friendly side.

The Devil went to the woman because he knew she would influence him! And we see this repeated over the course of the bible. Women are dangerous, everyman who failed in the bible it was coz of a woman, think about it, Adam, David, Samson.... need i say more.

With all that said, hope that this has been helpful, finally ill close on why God put woman under the submission of Man.
God put her under male, because she was powerful!
Jesus put his gospel in the hands of his Wife the Church because of the "spirit of influence"!

Ephesians 5:22-29 (the amplified)
22Wives, be subject (be submissive and adapt yourselves) to your own husbands as [a service] to the Lord. 23For the husband is head of the wife as Christ is the Head of the church, Himself the Savior of [His] body. 24As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands. 25Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her, 26So that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the Word, 27That He might present the church to Himself in glorious splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such things [that she might be holy and faultless]. 28Even so husbands should love their wives as [being in a sense] their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. 29For no man ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and carefully protects and cherishes it, as Christ does the church,

God is Love
Funginho